Sarah Baggaley explains what Snapchat is, why it’s so popular amongst teenagers and gives some tips to help Christian parents engage constructively
In today’s digital world, social media is a big part of many teens’ lives. Snapchat, with its disappearing messages, fun filters, and real-time updates, is particularly popular among young people. While these features can offer entertainment and connection, they also bring risks that parents need to be aware of. As Christian parents, it can be challenging to help our teens navigate platforms like Snapchat while keeping them safe, grounded in faith, and aware of the potential dangers. This guide will help you find that balance.
What is Snapchat? And why is it so appealing to teens?
Snapchat is one of the most popular social media platforms among teens. The app centres around sharing photos and videos that disappear after a short period, as well as a ‘Stories’ function that allows users to post updates visible for 24 hours. These photos and videos can be altered or enhanced with interactive filters and editing tools, which can be fun and engaging for teens.
The app also features content sections known as ‘Discover’ and ‘Spotlight’. ‘Discover’ is a curated content section where users can explore news, entertainment, and stories from publishers, influencers, and brands. ‘Spotlight’ is Snapchat’s version of TikTok, where users can view and share short videos. It features viral trends, challenges, and creative content submitted by users.
Another key feature is ‘Snap Map,’ which allows users to share their location in real-time. While this feature can be turned off or set to only be visible to certain friends, many teens may not adjust these settings, or realise the dangers of this, unknowingly sharing their whereabouts with a broad audience.
These features make Snapchat an exciting way for teens to connect with friends, stay updated on trends, and interact with both their contacts and the wider world. Snapchat’s variety of features also makes it particularly exciting for teens, as there are numerous ways to engage with the app.
Understanding the Risks
While Snapchat may seem harmless, it carries several risks that parents should be aware of:
- Photo-based sharing: Teens may feel pressured to present themselves in a certain way, leading to self-esteem issues.
- Inappropriate content: The app can expose teens to explicit material through direct messages or the Discover and Spotlight sections.
- Privacy concerns: Snap Map allows location sharing, which can put teens in vulnerable situations.
- Unmonitored interaction: Because Snapchat messages disappear, harmful interactions – such as bullying or inappropriate messages - may go unchecked.
- Sexting and vulnerability: Teens may share personal explicit content (‘Sexting’) under the belief that it will disappear, but it can be saved and misused.
- Addiction and mental health: The pressure to maintain ‘streaks’ (continuous daily messaging) and constant notifications can cause anxiety and unhealthy social media attachment.
- Stranger danger: Snapchat suggests new friends based on mutual connections, making it easy for teens to connect with strangers who may not be who they appear to be.
A Christian perspective: Protecting your teen’s heart and mind
As Christian parents, it’s essential to approach social media through a biblical lens.
Philippians 4:8 reminds us to focus on “whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable – if anything is excellent or praiseworthy – think about such things.” Encouraging your teen to engage with content that aligns with these values will help them avoid social media pitfalls and stay connected to their faith.
Proverbs 4:23 also teaches us to “guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” This includes online content we engage with and publish. Helping teens to understand this, and that their identity is rooted in Christ, not in social media validation, is key to protecting their heart and mind as they engage with Snapchat and other social media apps.
Mitigating Risks: How Parents Can Help
by fostering open communication, setting clear boundaries, and providing guidance based on biblical values, you can help your teen make wise decisions online.
While Snapchat poses risks, there are steps parents can take to help teens use it safely and responsibly:
1. Establish open communication
Keep lines of communication open with your teen, engaging them in conversation about their social media use. Ask them what they like about Snapchat, who they are talking to, and how they feel about the content they see. If you listen to and consider their views and experiences with Snapchat, they will feel respected and are more likely to come to you with concerns. Encourage your teen to share any uncomfortable interactions they may encounter on Snapchat.
2. Set boundaries together
Work with your teen to create guidelines for their Snapchat use. This might include screen time limits, discussing which features they can use, and deciding what types of content are appropriate to share and engage with. Involving your teen in setting these boundaries helps them to feel trusted and included in the process, and they are therefore more likely to follow these guidelines.
3. Enable parental controls
Snapchat offers several parental control features that can help you manage your teen’s account. For example, you can adjust who can contact them or view their posts. You can also disable the Snap Map feature, ensuring that their location is not visible to others. These tools can help you safeguard their privacy and protect them from the risks associated with Snapchat.
4. Teach digital etiquette and safety
Educate your teen about the risks of sexting, cyberbullying, and the dangers of sharing too much personal information. Encourage them to think twice before sending messages or images that they might regret later. Help them understand that even if something disappears, it can still be saved or shared with others.
5. Monitor usage without invading privacy
Monitoring your teen’s Snapchat activity is important, but it should be done in a way that respects their privacy. Periodic check-ins or asking to look at their account together can be effective, especially when you explain that it’s for their safety. Trust is key in these conversations - your goal is to help them make wise decisions, not to invade their space.
6. Pray for your teen
Praying for your teen in all areas of their life - including their digital life - is essential. Ask the Lord to guide them and protect them.
Ask God to give you wisdom in supporting them as they navigate social media. James 1:5 reminds us “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.”
Navigating Snapchat and other social media platforms can be challenging for both parents and teens. However, by fostering open communication, setting clear boundaries, and providing guidance based on biblical values, you can help your teen make wise decisions online.
Social media should never replace offline relationships or negatively affect a teen’s sense of identity in Christ. By being proactive - researching the apps your teen uses and communicating openly - you can help them build a balanced digital life while staying grounded in their faith.
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