Sleepovers are a cherished part of childhood—an opportunity for children to bond with friends, and enjoy the freedom of staying up far too late! For parents, sleepovers are a big moment, as the fun also comes with the responsibility of ensuring everyone is safe and looked after. With stories of peer-on-peer abuse in the media, it’s natural for parents to have concerns. So let’s look at how you can make for an enjoyable and safe sleepover.
Most parents want to protect their children, ensuring they thrive in safe environments. For many families, this extends beyond their homes and into the various clubs and church communities where their children participate. Whilst these places may offer growth, friendship, or spiritual development, parents need to be aware that safeguarding ...
Are you clear about what you would do?
Which social media do you find most attractive?
What do you spend on Christmas?
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Have you ever owned a pair?
Do conversations with your kids come easily?
What is the toughest part of Christmas for you?
Have you looked into the background of your favourite chocolate bar?
What was your experience of Santa growing up?
Have you had to make adjustments to your Christmas routine?
Do you know your love language?
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How many gifts do you typically buy?
Have tattos been an issue in your home?
Have you lost the sense of wonder of Christmas?
Was ‘advent’ celebrated in your home growing up?
Is selfishness the root of issues in your family?
What kind of discipline methods do you use?
Did you enjoy listening to talks growing up?
Have you had to field unwanted personal attacks?
When did you first become aware of ADHD?
What is the maximum you have ever worked in a week?
Do you prefer working from home?
Was ‘leaving for uni’ your biggest transition?
How was Halloween celebrated in your childhood?
Was your appearance a concern for you growing up?
Do you know a young person who vapes?
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Where do you get your parental wisdom from?
How close has your parenting been to what you expected?
What helped you settle into a new place?
Did you have any limits placed on your music listening?
Do you think there’s any connection between maths and faith?
Was psychology a subject offered at your school?
Do you recall teaching about ‘consent’ from your youth?
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Were your transitions to a new school harder for you, or for your child?
Which transitions do you recall most clearly?
How valuable were chats with your parents on the journey to school?
How did you find ‘English’ studies?
Which Bible passage do you find most relevant to your family?
What verses would you select?
Were you anxious as you began a new school year?
Did your exam results at 16 define your next steps?
Do you have a basic grasp of economics?
How significant were results days for you?
How would you cope with a phone ban?
Do you recall your first Saturday job?
Do you recall picking up ideas from adults by over hearing them chat?
Which part of geography did you like best?
How clear was your pathway?
How prevalent are ‘county lines’ where you live?
How tidy is your home?
Do you recall when you learned to pray?
Did you get compared with anyone when you were growinng up
Do your children access porn and how would you know?
Did you go through a teenage rebellion?
What were the faith based school options for you?
What’s the best part of being a parent?
What TV programmes seem to affect your kids?
How aware are you of this issue?
Have you ever followed someone you found to be ultimately unhelpful?
Did you ‘try something’ out of curiosity?
Do you know a teen who questions the basics about Jesus?
Did magical themes interest you in your youth?
What did you cringe at growing up?
Have you ever completely misheard a lyric?
How easy was it for you to grasp the Holy Spirit’s coming?
What would you do if your child decided not to follow Jesus?
Do you recall the views about sex from your sixth form days?
Was laughter a key part of your upbrining?
Which social media platforms are you on?
What’s your best tip for coping at exam time?
Which is your favourite?
When were you first aware of eco issues?
Have you ever stopped a film because of what it was portraying?
Are you tempted to sanitise the death of Jesus for younger ears?
Who do you know with dyslexia?
When did you first become aware of autism?
Who’s the best parent you know?
Do you know couples who have different views on faith?
When did you last play outside with your children?
Have you ever used a private tuor?
Do you believe your child can lead?
Jo Rowe looks at a phenomenon recognised by advertisers and begins a new approach with her eight-year-old son.
Were you a fan of his books in your youth?
Have you assumed the Bible had just one approach to punishment?
Does the word ’politics’ excite or depress you?
What approaches worked best in your home?
How did you rate history at your school?
Have you ever broken up a fight?
What do you believe about the Second Coming?
Are you aware of what is being taught about gender and sexuality at your children’s school?
Do you know a young person facing mental health challenges?
How did you learn to pray?
Do you recall a particular TV programme being banned?
What would you sacrifice for your family?
What is your first reaction when someone tells you something they didn’t expect?
Are you the kind of person to go on a diet?
Have your irritations increased or decreased over time?
Can you see history repeating itself in your family?
Do you think your parents made the right choice?
How easy is your church worship experience?
Did you ever win a prize at church?
Who was your ‘hero’ growing up?
Were your friends all your age?
How good do you rate your start in the Christian faith?
What matters most in your Christmas celebrations?
What are your top tips?
Did you ever talk about relationships at home?
As people who know grace why do we screw ourselves up so much?
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Do you find keeping children busy a challenge?
Have you ever received coaching?
Would you say you were an easy teenage to parent?
Jared Stacy warns UK Christians that the more belligerent approaches don’t work and aren’t the way of Jesus.
What’s your favourite part of the festivities?
Would you have enjoyed home education?
Andy Peck looks at the heartbreak of children drifting away from church and faith and suggests some things to remember
Would you be able to spot the signs?
Ali Hull talks to two Christian foster carers about their very different experiences of fostering
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Do you recall any regular chores you had to do?
Are you surprised by these statistics?
Lindsay Wright was lost in motherhood before rediscovering who she was
Do you have any ‘evangelists’ in your family?
Who sets the tone for the culture in your family?
Did you ever play sport on Sunday?
How would you support your child’s faith alongside their sport?
Do you do anything special at Halloween?
Andy Peck found a local church which solved a tricky dilemma
How often do you pray with your children?
Do you see yourself as a leader?
How has your relationship with your children changed over time?
What do you think teens think about Jesus?
Could your family find a time to read the Bible together?
Which apps do you use?
How do you know when your children are lying?
When did you first own a mobile phone?
What helped you through your exams?
Andy Peck believes there are some conversation approaches that can improve your chats with young people
How much do you know about what your children watch?
How many apps on your phone?
Jo Rowe learns how to help her children act as a thermostat and not a thermometer in challenging the atmosphere at school
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How good is your understanding of monarchy?
Are there things that typically press your buttons?
Can you recall the day you ended full-time education?
The day will be the first of very many. why not make the most of it?
Are you a bit jealous of your youthworker’s connection with your child?
Can you remember your first day at secondary school?
How well do you speak ‘teenager’…?
What might be possible if you began to dream?
Are you happy to receive good advice, whatever the source?
Jenni Whymark is thrilled to see England Women’s football thriving and asks whether we can learn a thing or two in the church
What works for you when you are angry with someone?
Do you secretly dread it when your children break up for summer?
Could your church supoort this nationwide work?
Where do you draw the line?
Make sure God’s beautiful gift to us is understood well
Longer, sunnier, days are here! The opportunity to take our children’s or youth group out for the day or just for a couple of hours on a club night has arrived! Perhaps to the beach or the countryside, maybe to a park or to a children’s farm, there are lots of places that we can take our children and young people to, including those with additional needs.
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What do your children find funny?
Are your young people tempted to smoke?
Wouldn’t it be great if anyone at church just ‘got on’! But we all know it’s not that simple
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You know you want to improve your conversations with your teenage son or daughter, but don’t know how
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Is there anything more important that you will read or hear today, than God’s Word?
Are we realistically expecting our teens to stand out as Christians in the classroom?
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Keeping children and young people entertained with tech may feel like a cop out – but now we’re in isolation, it’s only natural that we will be relying on our TVs, smartphones and gaming consoles for entertainment.
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